Asian american male dating
Statistically, I’m the least attractive person in the dating scene. It’s why a huge clothing company like Abercrombie & Fitch can make shirts with Asian stereotypes like “Two Wongs Can Make It White.” It’s why Stephen Colbert (whom I love, by the way), can get away with non-apologies when he cracks yet another Asian joke. Worst of all, it appears that Asians don’t care, either. You can drag an Asian-American off an airplane, and the most noise you’ll hear from other Asians is that they just don’t want to be seen as noisy and displeasing.
Alongside black women, the Asian-American male is considered the most ugly and undesirable person in the room. It’s why Ryo Oyamada, a 24 year old Japanese college student, can get run over by a police car in New York, and the officer goes free and no one chants in the streets. The thing is, there are no shortage of Asian-American men who are physically and intellectually desirable, who could portray themselves as fully living beings with compelling stories and relatable conflicts.
And then he cited research that actually quantifies this.
In a recent interview, he says: “I’ve turned down a couple roles.
My agents will tell you when I first signed with them, I turned down the first three or four things that came up.
But this new person, who identified himself as half-Asian and male, was different.
He was angry, he was aggressive, and he was obsessed with me.